Why you should free yourself from your current job

 

Don’t quit, not straight away, don’t be a shitstick, not advocating that. Especially if you’ve a family to provide for, bills to pay, etc. If you’re a free spirit, then you can get your coat. But before you dash for the door, showing your boss the middle finger, and saying
“Fuck you, you tight arsed shit-cunt, I QUIT!”
Here’s some things you might want to consider.

Start Observing

Time; you should observe how much the job you’re doing is sapping up most of your energy and time, preventing you from doing the things in life you want or should be doing.

Happiness; don’t stay if the job you’re in, is emotionally dragging you down.

MONEY; always ask for more money don’t stay if the money is shit – know your worth. Ask for a rise. Remember, you have bills to pay, children and yourself to feed.

One way in which you could to ask, no screw that, demand – not petulantly, but seek for that rise, and also more perks. Get what you want to say to your employer, prepared and ready to go, and say it with some balls. Especially if you’ve been there for a while on the same wage. If they come back with some nonsensical excuse, such as there’s no money in the company, or times are hard, you say;
“No, shit!”

Don’t let them fleece you of your capital for their gain.

Still having doubts about leaving, maybe because;
“But… I have friends there…
Oh we have a laugh, proper great banter…
My boss is a nice person, i’d feel like I’m letting people down”.
Fuck em!
Look after number one – think of your own interests. Better yourself. Know your worth. You are more than just a number. Or of course, stay there trapped, stagnant and continuing to gather dust, living out the rest of your days, wasting away like part of the furniture. Its your choice.

Now, before you forget, in no typical order here’s the Three vital components;

TIME = You not only have more minutes but you will have more energy to do the shit you care about.

HAPPINESS = Happiness

MONEY = Show me the money

If these three ingredients aren’t tell signs or giving you the slightest of an incline that its time to royally fuck off or change your current situation. Then the only person getting exploited is you, and you’re doing it to yourself.

How to keep the connection with your child – before the world and it’s despicable fuckers get their cunthooks on them.

 

Keep the connection with your child – before the world and it’s despicable fuckers get their cunthooks on them.

Start whilst they’re young. Call it their time. For example, Tilly’s time. Or as Dr Laura Markam https://www.ahaparenting.com/ puts it “Special time”

Let your child direct play for 10-20mins

Give your lil one nothing but your undivided attention

Set a timer

No phones – No TV – Just you and your lil one.

Why do this?

It’s great to improve your relationship with your child, plus it will help them dissolve any feelings of unease.

It’s about connection. You have to be their role model – set the bar. Don’t let the media, their peers or any other outsider, tell or show them the way.
After all, its your duty, so be their guide.

KIDS ARE FOR LIFE NOT JUST FOR CHRISTMAS

Are you thinking about having kids?

Most people wait until they’re financially ready, some read copious amounts of books and
some people just take the plunge and dive right in at the deep end of the thunderdome. Mavericks!

Financially ready has its downfall, in theory it sounds like the best idea, however you’re probably gonna be fucked. Physically fucked, and remember you have a very demanding little dictator now to provide for, who is going to just keep getting more energetic by the second.

You can of course read all the books take all the antenatal classes listen to all the advice other parents can give you, it means jack shit.

How do you know if you’re making the right decision?

As you know it’s a big commitment. Whether you’re going to do the deed and create you own or adopt. It’s by far the most challenging, very rewarding (but did I mention challenging?) thing you’re going to do.
After all you’re raising a little human, who knows sweet FA.

So, how can you prepare for this? Well truthfully… you can’t. Sorry to be the bearer of shit news. By all means read every book, take all the classes, listen to the advice given to you at hand, and of course, don’t forget to have some cash flow, because these lil fekkars are money spending machines. But also remember, every baby is different, their own person/individual.

You can never be truly ready. Not by the material sense, but emotional sense. You must make sure you’re emotionally ready, get you shit in order first. Literally, handle your shit.
This new member of your humble abode will push you, drain you and break you down like a drill sergeant. If you’ve got some heavy emotional scars that you’re still running from, not to mention unfit to look after yourself, then you might want to give parenting a miss. After all it’s not only you who will suffer, but the child will to.

Focus on yourself.